Between them, SARA EVANS and JAY BARKER have seven children.  He brought four into the union and she came with three.  But like many couples on their second marriage... they also have a strong desire to have a baby together.

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Problem is, Sara does NOT want to carry another child in her super sexy 40-year-old body.

She says, quote, "We want a baby together so bad.  [But] I've just gotta figure out the right time because I despise pregnancy.  And I'm begging Jay to let us hire a surrogate, but he's not comfortable with that."

Asked what appeals to her about having a surrogate, Sara said, "[Because] I could, like, continue to drink wine and be skinny and have fun and then all of a sudden have this beautiful baby."

By the way... even if Sara IS able to convince Jay to see things her way, their options are limited because she insists the surrogate would have to be, quote, "someone I knew I could trust and they wouldn't run off with my baby."

She even offered up a $20,000 fee to her sisters if one of them would carry the fetus, but she couldn't get any takers.  (Sara has four sisters.)

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